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Parents go viral for 'secret' praise technique. Science confirm it’s certifiably genius.

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57% Informative

Namwila Mulwanda and her partner Zephi practice “gentle-parenting” with their daughter, Nhyara .

One of their techniques is talking about her when she's within earshot but out of sight.

Research shows that indirect praise has a stronger psychological impact than direct praise.

Namwila Mulwanda posted a viral video of herself and her daughter Maya putting away her toys without being asked.

The viral response demonstrates the power of gentle parenting combined with thoughtful, specific praise.

For many commenters who didn't experience this kind of upbringing, these conversations offer a path to healing.

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informal

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English

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43

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medium-lived

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