Matt and Elysha Dicks have one core fight that replays over and over, in different disguises, over the course of their relationship

Matthew and Elysha Dicks have been married for 19 years .

They have one core fight that replays over and over again, in different disguises, over the course of their relationship.

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Matt grew up in a broken household with a difficult and unfortunate stepfather.

Elysha: "You can topple a person if you just step forward and act in a way that they’re not accustomed to" Matt : "There’s no excuse for cruelty in the world and stamping her into the ground".

Matt and Elysha have been married for more than a decade .

Elysha: "You're a grown man. You can say and do what you want, but it just can’t negatively affect me, our family, or the house" Matt : "I think you want to throw a pebble. I want to land an asteroid".