This week's Care and Feeding: What to say to your husband's family

Dear Care and Feeding : My husband doesn't want to share the news with his parents about his pregnancy.

Your husband's in-laws are living in a house that has literally rotted down around them due to lack of upkeep.

Carvell Wallace : Tell your husband that in every way you think this is a bad idea, but keep in mind that in order to survive, people from traumatic backgrounds often have to explore ways for differentiation.

My younger sister just had her first child and her brother-in-law had a healthy baby boy.

My husband was really hoping we'd have a boy, but is still smitten with our two girls.

My sister is already the favorite with my parents, and my husband is convinced that she will now get even more favoritism.

Are her three granddaughters not good enough?.