Dear Care and Feeding: My sister and her MAGA fiancé are furious at my 13-year-old daughter. How do you handle this?

The day before the wedding of " Jasmine" Jasmine's fiancé, " Tyler , was making obnoxious comments about women and LGBTQ+ people.

Tyler challenged Josie and the other kids and her uncles to ride an old-school bumper cars ride.

Josie rammed Tyler repeatedly until she had him pinned against a wall, and even then, she refused to let up.

Tyler was clearly embarrassed, but that seemed to be the extent of the damage.

The kind, sisterly thing to do is to express your regret about the way things turned out.

Instead, talk with her about better ways to handle one's rage.

If your parents and others in the family are inclined to jump into the middle of this, there’s not a thing you can do about it.

If you’ve been looking for an excuse to cut your mother out of your life, you needn’t do anything at all.