I guess Iâm not a good Christian

We're hard-wired to look out for ourselves and our immediate family members before we render aid to others, says Frida Ghitis .

Ghitis: We respect those who give of themselves to the extent that their own well-being suffers.

She asks: What happens if you come across ten such people? Or a thousand? Ghitis asks: How many immigrants the U.S. should admit in a single year ?.

But until the Powers-That-Be demonstrate some effort to live up to their own standards, I think I'm going to continue to set reasonable priorities. Does that make me a bad Christian ? Image: Jan Wijnants .