Care and Feeding: I started an affair with my wife’s sister. What should I do?

A man started an affair with his wife's sister when he was just under 1 .

The affair lasted two years , when he and his wife decided they couldn't continue on with it.

The boys are close and love spending time together.

Wendy suggested that should could request a transfer to another state through work.

Recently, our 19-year-old daughter saw me with the woman I have been sleeping with for the past 18 months .

She correctly inferred our relationship, but did not make her presence known to me.

However, she confided in her mother.

My wife said she doesn't feel comfortable with our children knowing we have an open marriage.